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As one uncle put it to me [I’m Congolese], “If you married a Nigerian, how would you cope if he wanted to retire in Nigeria? Could we really say that relationships would be easier if we were with someone of the same origin?
If you’re going to marry a foreigner, marry a white man.” These were the words that fell from my friend’s mother’s mouth when her daughter told her she was dating a Nigerian man because she was tired of Congolese men. ”, said my friend in response, defiantly challenging her mother, to my dismay (anybody knows better than to challenge an African mother! White people “White people don’t have much culture; it’s easy to adapt either way. Was it really for our own good to find our life partners within our own culture?
Though at the same time it would be foolish to ignore the counter fact of that their are many and growing fast, unions between these two groups in which are actually genuinely formed in the minds and intentions of both the involved individuals, and it is these whom I care to focus on. The same as to why alot of Black American men/women marry Caucasians, Asians or Hispanics.
Well, I first want to say that I've noticed an ever increasing number of YOUNG African and Caribbean guys whom are choosing to date/marry AA women over their own, which I personally have absolutely no problem with. & you go know ypur faith [email protected] that is just your ultimate ANSWER! Sadly, I do believe that there are some men who specifically seeks out to marry for only the intentions of getting their"green card" and/or for many other selfish reasons. You can not sin in this body and think their is no repercussions that comes tags alone with it.
That is why it's always good to keep a good relationship with God, and whatever is not meant to be in your life won't be no matter how hard you try and what IS meant to be WILL be.I just would like to know if any of you have any insight as to why it is you think so many more African men are hitching it up with AA gals these days and at such an continuous expanding rate? you just nibbed it on the butt, you don talk am finish, You just hit the nail right on the head,infact you hit the G spot. What you do in this body, you have to pay for what you did in your body. BUT, then there are some African men who are genuinely seeking a loving, loyal faithful wife who possess the qualities he is looking for in a woman.Then if she happens to be a "African American" then so be it. That is why I am currently engaged to a genuinely loving and caring African man.I need a white chick, cause I split up with my nigerian fiancee because of too much home video sh*t (I am not a catholic, I am not from the same tribe, her brother didnt like me, etc)It was real bleeped up cause I loved her so much, I dont even watch Nigerian Movies cause of all of that ish, so Imagine how I felt acting one!!! Let me clear up what I'm asking; what I'm generally asking is why are they choosing AA women/girls over their own Naija women? And there's that remote possibilitythat some of these guys and ladies actually love each other, but usually its for the benefitof the African man.Honestly, from some of the deplorable living conditions I've seen in Africa, well, I'll just say, I understand.